Remembering Nene

02 September 2019 | From Kgethi

Dear colleagues and students

It has now been confirmed that our student Uyinene Mrwetyana, fondly known as Nene, has died in tragic circumstances. The fact that a young female student has died in this horrific manner is devastating, and it has shocked us to our core. It is incomprehensible that a young life, with so much potential, has been stolen from her family and our community. It is even more distressing that this horrible incident is one of many where women – young and old, and even girls – are ripped from our communities in such a violent manner.

Our thoughts are with Nene’s family, who have had to endure unimaginable suffering, pain and anxiety for the past week since their daughter went missing on Saturday, 24 August 2019. Losing a child is one of the most painful experiences for a family, but to lose her in this manner is even more tragic and heartbreaking. We met with the family last week and have been in constant communication with them. We will keep them in our thoughts and will do whatever we can to support them.

We also recognise that Nene was a member of the UCT community and that many people in her residence, Roscommon House; in her class; in her faculty; and in the wider UCT community have been profoundly affected by this event. Counselling assistance is available to staff and students who may feel overwhelmed by this tragedy: via the Human Resources Department for staff and Student Wellness for students.

We also urge students experiencing any distress – whether from this news or any other challenges – to utilise the SADAG UCT Student Careline (0800 24 25 26), which is free from a Telkom line, or to SMS 31393 for a callback. This line offers 24/7 telephonic counselling, advice, referral facilities and general mental health support.

The university executive remains deeply distressed by the unacceptable levels of violence perpetuated against women and the marginalised in South African society on a daily basis. We hear too often of cases like this – it is a deep wound and we must all act together against this horrific scourge.

The UCT executive will be meeting urgently to discuss how we can commemorate Nene’s life and the many in our society who are affected by violence.

We urge you to please reach out to each other and support one another in this time of immense sadness and mourning. We are preparing a memorial space on campus and will share further details shortly.


Professor Mamokgethi Phakeng and the UCT Executive


The Office for Inclusivity and Change (OIC) has created an online portal where survivors and/or those close to them can report an incident of rape, sexual assault and/or discrimination. Students and staff are still able to access the OIC by visiting the office to receive individual support and referral information. Visit the case reporting website.

Anyone who needs immediate medical assistance or advice following a rape and/or sexual assault should call, SMS or send a missed call to the standby number: 072 393 7824. For telephonic counselling, please call one of the following options: Rape Crisis: 021 447 9762 or the South African Depression and Anxiety Group: 0800 24 25 26.

More information is available on the OIC’s Survivor Support web page.

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