Balancing a baby and the books

12 December 2019 | Story Sarah Middleton. Photo Supplied. Read time 6 min.
Rejoice Gorni, orginally from Ghana, will graduate with a postgraduate diploma in management in December 2019.
Rejoice Gorni, orginally from Ghana, will graduate with a postgraduate diploma in management in December 2019.

In May 2018 Rejoice Gorni arrived in South Africa to begin her postgraduate studies at the University of Cape Town (UCT) while she was 16 weeks pregnant. She left Ghana with her husband in order to complete a postgraduate diploma in management at UCT’s Graduate School of Business, a course for which she will be graduating on 13 December.

Undeterred by the cold and her carbohydrate cravings, Rejoice began her studies. A few months later, she survived eclampsia to give birth to her son. She returned to lectures barely four days later.

“I had to bring my baby with me to school because I had him two days before the beginning of the next block of lectures,” said Rejoice.

Rejoice, who grew up in Tema, a coastal town in Ghana, said her decision was based on the fact that she didn’t want to defer her course. She also wanted to introduce her family to the new baby as soon as possible.

“Deferring my course would mean . . . stay[ing] in South Africa longer than initially planned. The associated costs and the extended stay from the family business that I run with my husband here at home just weren’t feasible,” she said.

“I also had a whole village anticipating our new family addition and I could not deny them that.”

The breakout room

But the challenges were only just beginning: “My milk flow was really low and I could not express. Baby formula also did not work because my baby was reacting to it.”

Rejoice’s mother flew to Cape Town to look after the baby while she attended classes. “I used my tea breaks to breastfeed in one of the breakout rooms Kamila [Saban], programme coordinator at the GSB, helped to organise,” she said.

 

“I used my tea breaks to breastfeed in one of the breakout rooms.”

“When I ran out of tea breaks, I excused myself from the class and left my phone on recorder to capture the class discussions. One time I think I joined a group discussion over WhatsApp video and I was just rooms away!”

Embracing Africa

Although she already held a bachelor’s degree in business administration and a marketing diploma, Rejoice wanted to continue her studies in Cape Town.

“I realised quickly in my field of work as a business analyst how different we are as a continent in the way we live, work, interact and even socialise in Africa,” she said.

“So I started embracing Africa as my context and economy. When I decided to [further my] education, it wasn’t difficult to choose South Africa because UCT was touted as the number one university in Africa and it was just [a six-hour] flight from home.”

Rejoice studied management practice, which, she said, is anchored by values-based leadership.

“It has really helped me understand who I am, why I act the way I do and why my management style is the way it is. I have also become really conscious of doing business with an impact perspective.”

My life is a playbook

Rejoice also tries to be a good influence on her younger siblings.

“As a big sister to three young ladies, my life is a playbook for my sisters to show them the way and remind them that we can achieve whatever we want to.”

 

“My life is a playbook for my sisters to show them the way and remind them that we can achieve whatever we want to.”

For now, Rejoice is back at the grindstone in Ghana.

“I have resumed work at ITRUS, a family-managed IT service provider, and have recently been engaged by anSpoken Ghana, a mental health advocacy group, as director of operations,” she said.

Rejoice will graduate with a postgraduate diploma in management in December 2019. She is appreciative of those who have helped her on her path towards graduation.

“I am grateful to my partner, Delali, my mother and siblings. I am also grateful to Kamila Saban for arranging the breastfeeding room during contact hours.”


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December graduation 2019


The University of Cape Town will be celebrating the graduation of 1 960 of its students over six graduation ceremonies on 12, 13 and 23 December, which include the conferral of three honorary doctorates and the presentation of the UCT Book Award and the UCT Creative Works Award. This graduation season, we also bid a fond farewell to our chancellor, Mrs Graça Machel, who has been the titular head of the university for the past 20 years. Her compassionate and dedicated service to the university will be deeply missed.
Farewell Chancellor Graça Machel
 

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